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A Long Island surgeon embroiled in a nearly four-year divorce proceeding wants his estranged wife to return the kidney he donated to her, although he says he'll settle for $1.5 million in compensation.

Dr. Richard Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center, told reporters at his lawyer's Long Island office Wednesday that he decided to go public with his demand for kidney compensation because he has grown frustrated with the negotiations with his estranged wife.

He claimed he has been prevented from seeing their children, ages, 8, 11 and 14, for months at a time.
"This is my last resort; I did not want to do this publicly," Batista said.

He said he gave his kidney to Dawnell Batista, now 44, in June 2001. She filed for divorce in July 2005, although he claims she began having an extramarital affair 18 months to two years after receiving the kidney transplant, his attorney, Dominick Barbara said.

Douglas Rothkopf, the attorney representing Dawnell Batista, did not return telephone calls seeking comment. Matrimonial attorneys were quick to shoot down any possibility Batista would succeed.

"I've been in this business over 40 years and I've never heard of that," said Seymour J. Reisman, a Long Island divorce lawyer. "It's not marital property, not a marital asset you can put a price tag on."

Manhattan attorney Susan Moss said, "The good doctor is out of luck and out a kidney. This is similar to cases where a husband wants to be repaid for the cost of breast implants and the such.

Our judges are not willing to value such assets, so to speak." Batista, 49, said he has no regrets about donating the kidney, only about the failed marriage. The couple was married in 1990 and lived in a million-dollar home in Massapequa.

They met while he was working at a hospital and she was training to be a nurse. He still recalls the day after the surgery took place. "There is no greater feeling on this planet. As God is my witness, I felt as if I could put my arm around Jesus Christ.

It was an unbelievable; I was walking on a cloud. To this day I would still do it again.
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I am so glad my divorce did not get this ugly or insane.....
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Oh, crap!! This is my third marriage, and hopefully my last. I thought my exes were bad but they don't hold a candle to this jerk.

And this _____ is worried about not seeing his kids - I guess he isn't worried about what a piece of _____ they may think he is after this is over.

What a _______!!

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Unbelievable the things people want during a divorce!
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If he takes the kidney then he is in effect giving her a death sentence. Sure, she may be on haemodialysis for a while, but that will be the end result.

So I can't see any court allowing him to in effect, kill his wife...
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Sheesh! And all I want is my maiden name back.
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I definately don't see him getting his kidney back, I mean come on...what is he going to do with it? Have it put back in? Nah!

I highly doubt he'll get the money for it. It was a gift given out of love and free will. Although I've seen stranger jury decisions :th_09403103:

I agree he's a real jerk!
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Ok I find this really bizzare.
That Quack is being so totally unrealistic.
Like what court will order her to give the kidney back?
He sounds too much like a sore loser to me.
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Probably this is a sore ego thing - I mean, he is an MD (ego issues already! LOL) he gave her a kidney and she STILL went and cheated on him....

Sore bruised ego of a butthead.
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